dear James Vahle. I do not know you, nor have I met you and I never shall. I do not know your friends nor your life-story. I do not understand the situation nor the conditions which you had passed away in. I do not know why you came to be who you are, or the emotions you have felt all along your life. I do not know you all I know is that we have come from two different walks of life and now that yours is over, I want to send my deepest condolences to your family and friends who miss you very much. maybe one day I hope I will meet you James and maybe we could be good friends. you will not be forgotten. sincerely and with much love, a stranger.